Tiga Bocah Lahir dalam Waktu 9 Bulan, tapi Bukan Kembar 3

Three Sisters Born in 9 Months, They`re not Triplets

Editor : Cahyani Harzi
Translator : Dhelia Gani


Tiga Bocah Lahir dalam Waktu 9 Bulan, tapi Bukan Kembar 3
Putri tertua, Cara (tengah) bersama kedua adiknya Tessa dan Daynie beserta kedua orangtua mereka (Foto: Mail Online)

MEREKA bersaudara, mereka semua berusia empat tahun - namun, yang mengejutkan, ketiga gadis kecil ini bukanlah kembar tiga.

Yang tertua, Cara, baru berusia sembilan bulan saat ia menjadi kakak kembar Laura dan Jenna.

Ibunya, Tessa Singh, 40, hamil lagi dalam waktu 12 minggu kelahiran putri pertama, dan si kembar lahir prematur pada 28 minggu kemudian.

Ini berarti selama tiga bulan setiap tahun, ketiga bocah cantik ini merayakan ulang tahun di tahun yang sama.

Nyonya Singh mengatakan: ´Orang tidak percaya ketika saya memberitahu mereka bahwa ketiga putri saya usianya sama, namun mereka bukan kembar tiga, seperti dilansir Mail Online.

"Saya tidak percaya sudah melahirkan tiga oranf putri dalam waktu sembilan bulan. Tangan saya rasanya sudah penuh."

Nyonya Singh, seorang guru, dan suaminya, Daynie  bekerja sebagai penata rambut, 39, mendapatkan putri pertama mereka Cara pada Juli 2008. Mereka mulai mencoba untuk mendapatkan anak lagi tiga bulan kemudian.

Nyonya Singh mengatakan: "Kami ingin memiliki bayi berdekatan, jadi kami pikir ketika Cara berusia tiga bulan bahwa kita harus mulai mencoba seperti yang kita tidak tahu berapa lama akan terwujud."

"Kalau hal itu akan butuh waktu satu tahun atau lebih untuk hamil, maka kita ingin mulai mencoba langsung. Aku benar-benar hamil pertama kalinya kami mulai mencoba, yang merupakan kejutan."

Pasangan yang tinggal di Chorlton, Manchester, kembali mendapat kejutan ketika Nyonya Singh pergi melakukan scan saat kehamilan 12 minggu dan ahli sonogram memperkirakan bayinya akan kembar.

Dia berkata: "Saya tidak percaya apa yang saya dengar. Saya sangat terkejut lengkap. Saya memang lebih sering morning sickness dengan kehamilan kedua, tapi saya tidak pernah membayangkan bahwa saya mengandung anak kembar. Tidak ada sejarah anak kembar di kedua sisi keluarga kami.

"Saya mendapatkan tawaran konseling oleh rumah sakit setelah saya mencarinya. Saya pikir mereka akan berpikir bahwa tiga bayi di bawah usia sembilan bulan itu agak sulit untuk mengatasinya.

"Kami membahas hal ini dan memutuskan bahwa itu menakutkan, tapi selama kita dapat mengaturnya, maka kita akan mampu mewujudkan."

Namun pada April 2009, ketika kandungan Nyonya Singh berusia 27 minggu, dia pergi ke persalinan prematur.

Dia berkata: "Itu sangat menakutkan bahwa bayi sedang dalam perjalanan mereka dilahirkan. Kami bahkan tidak tahu apakah mereka akan bertahan. Kami pikir bahwa kami akan kehilangan mereka. "

Dokter di Royal Infirmary Oldham berhasil menahan kontraksi selama seminggu. Kemudian si kembar lahir, masing-masing beratnya hanya 4,4 kg.

Kedua bayi perempuan itu lalu dipindahkan ke Rumah Sakit St Mary di Manchester. Jenna menderita pendarahan pada otak, ada lubang di hati dan paru-parunya lemah.

Nyonya Singh mengaku: "Itu adalah masa-masa yang mengerikan bagi kami ketika si kembar pertama lahir. Mereka begitu kecil dan begitu lemah. Pada satu titik, kami mengucapkan selamat tinggal kepada Jenna, tapi luar biasa ia berhasil melawan. "

Jenna didiagnosa dengan cerebral palsy dan dokter memperingatkan Nyonya Singh bahwa dia tidak bisa berjalan.

Namun dia membuktikan bahwa prediksi petugas medis salah, sesuatu yang Nyonya Singh percaya adalah kedekatan hubungan dengan adik-adiknya.

Dia berkata: "Mereka memiliki suatu pertalian yang kuat. Cara baru berusia sembilan bulan ketika si kembar lahir, jadi dia tidak pernah mengenal hidup tanpa kehadiran satu sama lain."

"Seolah-olah mereka kembar tiga. Mereka tidak pernah terpisah satu sama lain. Dia memiliki ikatan kuat dengan si kembar seperti yang mereka lakukan satu sama lain. Mereka selalu ingin tidur bersama-sama di satu tempat tidur. "

´Jenna sangat terbantu oleh kehadiran kedua adiknya Ini memberinya tujuan dan peluang untuk bersaing dengan mereka, yang telah banyak membantunya."´

Dia menambahkan: "Ini mungkin menjadi kejutan untuk melahirkan tiga bayi dalam sembilan bulan, tapi saya tidak akan mengubahnya untuk dunia."

Nyonya Singh melakukan penggalangan dana untuk Central Manchester University Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust Charity. Dia baru saja menyelesaikan London Marathon untuk mengumpulkan dana.

THEY´RE sisters, they’re all four years old – but, remarkably, these three little girls are not triplets.

The eldest, Cara, was just nine months old when she became a big sister to twins Laura and Jenna.

Her mother, Tessa Singh, 40, had become pregnant again within 12 weeks of her birth, and the twins were born prematurely at 28 weeks.

It means for three months of each year, the sisters are all the same age.

Mrs Singh said: ‘People can’t believe it when I tell them all the girls are the same age, yet they aren’t triplets.

‘I can’t quite believe I’ve given birth to three girls in just nine months. I’ve certainly had my hands full.’

Mrs Singh, a teacher, and her hairdresser husband Daynie, 39, had their first daughter Cara in July 2008. They started trying for another baby three months later.

Mrs Singh said: ‘We had wanted to have babies close together so we thought when Cara was three months old that we should start trying as we didn’t know how long it would take.

‘If it was going to take a year or so to fall pregnant, then we wanted to start trying straight away. I actually fell pregnant the first time we started trying, which was a bit of a surprise.’

The couple, who live in Chorlton, Manchester, were in for a further surprise when Mrs Singh went for a 12-week scan and the sonographer told her she was expecting twins.

She said: ‘I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I was in complete shock. I’d had a lot more morning sickness with this pregnancy, but I had never imagined that I could be carrying twins. There are no twins in either side of our families.

‘I was actually offered counselling by the hospital after I’d found out. I think they thought that three babies in under nine months was a bit too much to cope with.

‘We discussed it and decided that it was daunting, but as long as we were organised, then we would be able to manage.’

But in April 2009, when Mrs Singh was 27 weeks pregnant, she went into premature labour.

She said: ‘It was so frightening that the babies were on their way at such an early stage. We didn’t even know if they would survive. We really thought that we were going to lose them.’

Doctors at Royal Oldham Infirmary managed to hold off the contractions for a week. Then the twins were delivered, each weighing only 2lbs.

The girls were transferred to St Mary’s Hospital in Manchester. Jenna suffered two bleeds on the brain, had a hole in her heart and had a collapsed lung.

Mrs Singh said: ‘It was a terrifying time for us when the twins were first born. They were so tiny and so poorly. At one point we said goodbye to Jenna, but amazingly she managed to fight on.’

Jenna was diagnosed with cerebral palsy and the doctors warned Mrs Singh that she may never walk.

 But she has proved the medics wrong, something that Mrs Singh believes is down to her close relationship with her sisters.

She said: ‘They have such a strong bond. Cara was only nine months old when the twins were born, so she has never known life without them there.

‘It is as if they are all triplets. They are never apart from each other. She has just as strong a bond with the twins as they do with each other. They always want to sleep all together on one bed.’

‘Jenna has been helped so much by her sisters. It has given her the goal and incentives to keep up with them, which has helped her enormously.’

She added: ‘It may have been a shock to give birth to three babies in nine months, but I wouldn’t change it for the world.’

Mrs Singh is fundraising for Central Manchester University Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust Charity. She has just completed the London Marathon to raise funds.